“You are actively making the world a worse place by staying with her and pretending that abusive and dysfunctional garbage is normal.”
“Nobody had to generate rules and norms and media and traditions to make me want to eat or to eat food and not clothes. But there are constant efforts afoot in our culture to make me believe I should want men and want them to like me: the vast majority of textual and visual culture, most religions, our girlfriends at school, old ladies asking if we have a boyfriend yet, and so on.”
“Heterosexual men in general do not appreciate the feeling of exposure and vulnerability that being approached produces.” Agree? Disagree? Wanna send your own question to Dr. Amorous?
“Why haven’t your girlfriends driven up to your place with a van already and busted you out of that sad scene?”
“I have seen couples survive two or three years apart, and I have seen couples crash and burn after only a few months. So let’s think about what makes the difference.”
Some practical tips to get you back up in your life between the sheets, or spice it up. (So many puns, so little time.)